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Subject: Head Not Enough



QUESTION:

Well, this is the case. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend awhile after we were together and sex was very common in our relationship at for the first few months.. And honestly.. It was good. I enjoyed it, and so did he. Lately& he seems to be more into getting head. For instance, last night, he started making out with me and yes I don't mind giving him a little foreplay, but I've told him to not get me excited if all that's going to happen is me giving him head - understandable right? Well last night he started fingering me and such, then he pushed my head down and I did it, thinking it was just going to be foreplay and then it ended up being it. I gave him head, and that was the end. Does this mean that I'm not "good" at sex anymore or what.. Please tell me what's going through his head!!!!!

REPLY:

I like the two uses of head . Women are good at always wondering if its them. I don't know why this is. Conditioning I guess. What's going through his "head"? I don't know. The only way to know is to ask him. My guess is laziness is going through his head. It's a lot easier to lay back and let someone else do all the work! Just make it clear to him that this is not good enough. You are not being satisfied by these encounters, and both partners should have a reasonable expectation of getting off during sex - not just one of them!

- KT

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