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Subject: Boyfriend HelpQUESTION: My boyfriend and I recently wanted to take it to a new level with our sexual activity. He wants me to lick his butt while I masturbate him in the front "rusty trombone" and then swollow his "love" juice. Now, I wouldn't mind this normally but, the last time it happened he tried strangling me and said it would get me higher. He is a chronic methamphetamine abuser and I really believe he has anger issues. Now, normally he is very tender in our loving making but he has recently been violent and abusive. There is a 20 year difference in our age, he is 37 and I'm 18 and I'm becoming more scared as the day goes on. Do you have any advice for me? REPLY: I don't think I need to tell you that you are in a dangerous situation. You are young and you may be thinking that this is normal behavior but it is not. Whenever you are in a relationship where you feel threatened - male or female - it is not a loving relationship. Since I am not a counselor, I cannot advise you what to do, but I would strongly urge you to call this service and ask for help from the pros: National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE. In the meantime, you may want to remove yourself from the situation until you get things sorted out. This does not sound like a healthy situation to me. - KT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [ submit a tip/comment for this question here ] | [ submit a new question here ] User Submitted Tips/Comments: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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