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Subject: Porn on InternetQUESTION: I have some questions. I am a woman approaching my 50 mark. My hubbie is 53, and we have a problem. Now for about five years he has looked at porn on the internet, he is a type 2 diabetic. We found out he was diabetic about two years ago. Sometimes I think he just uses being a diabetic as an excuss. So many unanswered questions. Over the last five years he doesn't have much to do with me sexually. Lately it's down to almost nothing. A lady use to call here everytime he went to work asking my relationship with him. I never told her because, it was none of this stranger to me, business. A lot he does is unexplained. I know being a diabetic does effect your sex life but, can the porn also. I really have believed he has cheated on me for a long time now but, can't prove it. I feel so lost and empty, and alone. It's like I have a roommate, not a hubbie. I am so lost and don't know what to do anymore. He has even stopped wearing his wedding band. Please help me, I don't know what to think or do anymore. REPLY: You do sound very isolated, and that is a terrible way to feel. I think you need to talk with someone about this. Perhaps you would consider a counselor? If that option is too expensive, if you have a religion, does your church or synagogue offer any sort of counseling? Often, a talk with a minister, priest, rabbi or whatever can help. These folks usually have some training in counseling. The fact is, as you say, you are "lost". And what do we do when we get lost? We don't just sit there on the highway and starve to death. We get directions. So, don't give up. Talk with someone who is knowledgable, and you will find your way out of there. - KT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [ submit a tip/comment for this question here ] | [ submit a new question here ] User Submitted Tips/Comments: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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