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Subject: Mind BodyQUESTION: So.. Here's the thing. It's kind of personal you know, but I don't think it's normal. I've only been having sex for about 6 months, and its only been with one guy. I've been dating him for about a year and a half. It's weird. Ever since I've been having sex it's like my mind doesn't agree with my body. Sometimes I'll just be sitting in class and I will be "wet" or what-not and I'm not thinking about sex or anything like that. I'll just be writing a paper or listening to my professor. And then there's times I'll be with my boyfriend and my mind and body want to have sex really bad, but I can't seem to get "wet". I don't know, last time this happened my boyfriend asked me if I was sure I still wanted to have sex with him. And I do. I love him, and I love making love to him, but sometimes, I just can't get my body going. HELP! REPLY: Your experience is typical, and nothing to be concerned about. There are certain body functions we have no control over - such as lubrication or, for males, erections - and the best we can do is try to "encourage" their occurrence with the appropriate setting. The magic doesn't always work, and most women end up using artificial lubes for intercourse anyway. So, go pick up some lube at the drugstore - it's cheap - and don't worry about this. - KT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [ submit a tip/comment for this question here ] | [ submit a new question here ] User Submitted Tips/Comments: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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