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Subject: Hair PullingQUESTION: Ok so I like my hair pulled...alot. I'm kinda worried that my boyfriend might be offended by it. He does it and he does it the way I like but he's always asking "Why do you like that?" I also like being tied up, spanked, and even gagged to an extent with something in my mouth I'm just wondering is there something wrong with me because I like to be "roughed" up a bit. I just wonder is there anything wrong with what I ask for? I tried to explain that I'm a dominating person in my personal life with work and school so I just wonder if it's because I want to feel out of control for even just that second. REPLY: Sounds like very common power play stuff, essentially mild bondage. You hit the nail on the head with the comment about being out of control, I think. Generally, people who like being tied up are "Type A" personalities and they find the freedom of being out of control liberating and erotic. As long as the partner can tolerate the behaviour - and as long as it doesn't get dangerous - then it's not a problem. - KT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [ submit a tip/comment for this question here ] | [ submit a new question here ] User Submitted Tips/Comments: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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