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Subject: Orgasm ProblemQUESTION: I am currently 30 yrs. old and I am involved with a several guys - 23 yr. old, 29 yr. old, and a 32yr. old. Out of all these guys I enjoy sex with the 23 yr. old the most, he's very into what pleases me and that brings me joy but he is also curious as to why I am not able to have an orgasm without having to use my fingers as help also. This has always been a slight problem for me. If I help with fingers it takes a very long time, if it happens at all. When I'm with the other guys I also have to use my fingers to help me to have an orgasm. I guess my main question and concern is is this normal for me to have to use my fingers to help me to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse? All 3 of these men please me in a special way, but I am concerned about my orgasm problem, if it is a problem. Please help me in any way possible figure this out. Thanks alot. REPLY: 80% of women only achieve orgasm from clitoral stimulation, i.e. using your fingers or a small vibe. That is what is "normal". So, your body is normal. As an aside, I hope you are practicing safe sex and using a condom with multiple lovers. - KT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [ submit a tip/comment for this question here ] | [ submit a new question here ] User Submitted Tips/Comments: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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