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Subject: Mismatched Sex DrivesQUESTION: My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs (I am 9 yrs younger than him). At first he wanted more and I wanted less. Recently my sex drive has went thru the roof. I have talked with him and we've experimented some to no avail. I have started having multiple gspot orgasms. For the man who was having similar problems (sex drive mismatch), I just started taking care of myself. I have the same neg feelings and concerns he was expressing, but I decided that sex isn't a reason to leave and I will not fool around. I get out my vibe and take care of myself, and no it ain't the same but it does help. Plus it has helped the disagreements about it, because he knows if he don't take care of my needs I will. REPLY: This sounds like a very common sense approach to what is a common scenario - one person feeling like they are not getting enough and another feeling like too many demands are being made. In successful partnerships - the key is good communication, and once in awhile you will need to take care of your own needs. - KT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [ submit a tip/comment for this question here ] | [ submit a new question here ] User Submitted Tips/Comments: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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