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Subject: G Spot Orgasm



QUESTION:

My fiancee has told me that I am the ONLY woman he has been with that cannot have a G-Spot. Is there something wrong with me. I only recall maybe once in my life that I have had one and I think it is important to him and I think he may think that either he is doing something wrong or I'm just not maybe truly in love with him if I can't get one.

REPLY:

Yeeeaaahh! I don't see ANY connection between a G-spot orgasm and measure of love. None! To try to use one to measure the other is just crap. I also find his letting you know about his previous "successful" conquests a little manipulative or at least, really uninformed. Each person and each relationship is unique and previous "successes" do not make or break a case for what will work between the two of you. Not all women can have G-spot orgasms, and you may fall into that category. However - if you want to, you can work at it, and the best book on the subject is "Understanding the G-spot" by Donald Hicks. I suggest that you and your partner read it together, and then practice. Sex is supposed to be fun so make it an exploration... but not "reaching" it is no measure of something being wrong or that you do not love him.

- KT

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